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"Creating Ethical Space" BYUMS Webinar with Barry Rellaford - Shared screen with speaker view
Kirsten Stoneley
09:08
Hello from Woodland Hills, CA
Cameron Hill
09:09
Hi all - from Denver, CO
BarryRellaford
09:21
Hi Cameron - good to see you!
BarryRellaford
09:28
Hi Stephen Kron!
LeOra Clements
09:30
Hello - LeOra from Houston
christianfeinauer
09:34
Hello from Chris Feinauer in South Jordan, UT!
Cameron Hill
09:34
Good to see you Barry!
Bob Lindquist
09:36
Hi from 109 degree Phoenix!
BarryRellaford
09:39
and Chris Radford - it’s been a long time!
Michelle Giovo
09:45
Greetings from Ogden UT. Thanks so much for these webinars
BarryRellaford
09:45
Hi Chris Feinauer!
BarryRellaford
09:50
And Ron Gardner!
Robin Johnson
09:52
Hello! Robin Johnson, BYU '82 and '84, La Crescenta, CA (Los Angeles)
Cinthia .
09:53
hello, i am from PERU
BarryRellaford
10:04
Buenos dias, Cinthia!
Peggy Fairchild
10:09
Joining from Arlington, TX
BarryRellaford
10:13
Hi Robin - we were at the Y at the same time!
Cinthia .
10:23
Good morning
Erik Egan
10:29
Hello from Dallas, TX
saroj
10:56
Hi, Reza from Columbia, Maryland
Laura Diaz
10:58
Hello, from Panama City, Panama!
Robert ’s iPad
11:23
Tuning in from Dallas TX area
Andrew Cuthbert
12:04
Working remotely from Riverton, UT. Hello all!
Kristina Southam
14:41
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Robert ’s iPad
15:00
customer uncertainty
LeOra Clements
15:07
Looking for work - enjoying time between gigs.
christianfeinauer
15:20
Three of my children have lost employment or had wages cut.
Tim Ramsden
15:23
Adapting to limitations of telework
Kristina Southam
15:24
Supporting loved ones in loss
Travis Morgan
15:24
On the board of an HOA with amenity shutdowns, etc.
Cameron Hill
15:27
clients emerging from covid19
Robin Johnson
15:31
working remotely for "day job". and teaching violin via zoom!
Taylor Rosecrans
15:44
social isolation
Peggy Fairchild
15:48
I'm a nurse so I spend a portion of my time working remotely and a portion at work in the clinic.
Liz Ellis
15:54
escalated relational stress at office due to lack of connection
Kirsten Stoneley
16:15
Moving from one customer to another working for a vendor. My current customer is rolling off our software and awaiting being reassigned to another account
Reza Chowdhury
16:17
In transition.
Claudia
16:21
People feeling isolated and alone
Andrew Cuthbert
16:22
Just started new position at BYU MSB
Kristina Southam
16:35
Welcome to BYU Andrew!
Robin Johnson
16:51
The term "social distancing" is unfortunate. Should be physical distancing, and social connection!
Kristina Southam
16:58
Well said!
Ron Gardner
18:21
as one over 65, I appreciate concern for our welfare, but also feel somewhat like a marginalized group.
Kristina Southam
19:05
Really tough Ron, I know many who have felt that too
Kristina Southam
22:14
What are some of the decisions you are facing in your work and life?
Kirsten Stoneley
22:57
How much longer do I want to work overall. The drops in the stock market may have pushed that out further
christianfeinauer
23:15
How to serve in my Church calling when we have physical distancing restrictions.
Ron Gardner
24:10
I am going to fly to North Carolina, carefully, to celebrate our family together as planned last year
LeOra Clements
24:18
How to stay positive and not feel paralyzed by the negative going on around us.
Claudia
27:01
We are in this together, but we're having such different experiences. I am dealing, almost daily, with friends and family members who are feeling judged for their choices to maintain distance and wear masks. They call or text with anger or in tears. They don't want to have to explain their own underlying health conditions to acquaintances or strangers. One was mockingly videoed by a man (yesterday) at Walmart, because she was wearing a mask.
Andrew Cuthbert
27:19
uncertainty as to what choice to make
Kristina Southam
27:43
"What is a dilemma?"
Kristina Southam
29:22
"What are some dilemmas you face?"
Taylor Rosecrans
29:54
Working with children at home. It's impossible to be a present parent and present employee at the same time.
Cameron Hill
30:16
Working from home and establishing boundaries
Bob Lindquist
30:55
Selling to clients who are cutting budgets or shutting down the business
Liz Ellis
30:56
speaking up vs staying quiet: Work situation where you feel something is unjust, but speaking up could affect your job or others perspective of you.
Ron Gardner
31:59
It has been a dilemma whether to continue with our plans for a long planned family gathering with the real pros and cons
Kristina Southam
33:54
SPACE: Sense, Pause, Ask, Choose and Engage
LeOra Clements
34:55
Can't hear it
Kristina Southam
35:06
It's quiet, but coming through
Robin Johnson
35:26
each person can turn up their own volume....
Kristina Southam
37:28
"Can you sense it?"
Reza Chowdhury
37:43
Yes,
Kristina Southam
39:13
"How do you experience distress?"
Reza Chowdhury
39:30
Intuition or Holy Ghost helps to discern.
Kristina Southam
42:17
"Pause"
Reza Chowdhury
42:30
If we can be still long enough to experience the silence within then we can sense the prompting of Holy Ghost.
Kristina Southam
43:35
Very true Reza
Reza Chowdhury
44:00
Thank you Kristina.
Robin Johnson
44:33
Yea, rider and elephant - Jonathan Haidt!
Kristina Southam
45:04
"What do you do to Pause?"
Kirsten Stoneley
45:09
Take a deep breath
Bob Lindquist
45:11
Exercise at sunrise
Bob Lindquist
45:23
Everything is new and fresh
Reza Chowdhury
45:34
Trust in myself to trust in the Lord.
Stephen Kron
45:36
Count my blessings, which are so very numerous.
Beckys phone
45:41
journaling
Dave Jungheim
45:42
Get into nature/ nature photography
Liz Ellis
45:42
Walk away, take a deep breath, talk it through with an unbiased confidante
Cameron Hill
45:46
ask additional questions - do you really understand.
AZEDZI Germain
45:54
make a profound respiration
Robin Johnson
46:05
simple meditations
Claudia
47:01
take a bath!
Kristina Southam
47:32
Turn off my phone
Kristina Southam
47:49
Book: "First things first"
Kristina Southam
48:06
1. Slow to Center
Reza Chowdhury
48:30
Thank you for sharing that Kristina. Cell phone can be helpful and cause of anxiety.
Kristina Southam
50:12
3 deep breaths, pray, repeat/review the request
Kristina Southam
50:18
2. Gain Proper Distance
Kristina Southam
53:24
"Write what you sense" - "Change your pace and place" - "Contemplate your response" - "Check your compass"
Kristina Southam
53:32
"Ask"
Kristina Southam
53:52
"What are some ethical questions to Ask?"
Kristina Southam
54:09
Will I be able to sleep at night
Kristina Southam
54:14
What if it made the news
Cameron Hill
54:22
how will this impact all involved?
Dale Nuckles
54:24
Am I conveying a true impression?
Cameron Hill
54:33
What's my intent?
Stephen Kron
54:39
What/how would Jesus ask?
Andrew Cuthbert
54:43
How does this affect others?
Brian C. Dixon
54:49
Is it the right thing to do?
Kristina Southam
55:25
"Ethics Field Guide" book: https://www.ethicsfieldguide.com/pages/about-us
Robin Johnson
56:38
What is my motivation?
Kristina Southam
56:40
"What is your ethical question?"
Kristina Southam
57:00
"Choose"
Kristina Southam
57:56
"Make the right decision and make the decision right"
Reza Chowdhury
58:02
Do I have a clear conscious and what is my comfort level?
Ron Gardner
58:23
on ask... not only what would Jesus do, but how would He do it?
Bob Lindquist
58:39
What are your thoughts about D&C9:8-9 as it applies to it being right?
Robin Johnson
59:37
"The Paradox of Choice" - Barry Schwartz
Beckys phone
59:59
what is my intent?
Kristina Southam
01:00:44
O-H!
Taylor Rosecrans
01:00:50
I-O!
Stephen Kron
01:01:31
Barry, you have learned by now that your wife is always right.
Kristina Southam
01:01:59
I think you nailed it Stephen ; )
Kristina Southam
01:02:34
"What choice brings you peace?"
Kristina Southam
01:02:41
"Engage"
Kristina Southam
01:02:50
Make your decision right.
Reza Chowdhury
01:02:50
Can I face my maker with a clear conscious.
Robin Johnson
01:05:12
He said, "I'll fight but..." what was the rest of the sentence?
Stephen Kron
01:05:42
At work I've encouraged the owners (who are good Catholics, greatly respect the Church and have made many right decisions to help the company to be successful) that their future success is likely going to be determined by whether they make not just right choices, but righteous choices.
Bob Lindquist
01:09:10
Good stuff - thanks for your insights & thoughts!
Andrew Cuthbert
01:09:11
Barry, this was great. Thank you!
Robert Sullivan
01:09:18
Thank you Barry!!!
christianfeinauer
01:09:19
Barry, thanks for presenting. It was good to be with you, and I appreciate the terrific ideas you gave us!